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FormalPara Learning Objectives
  1. 1.

    To study how social marketing serves to improve women’s rights and to fight against harmful cultural practices.

  2. 2.

    To discover the key role of UN Women Pakistan in raising awareness and promoting SDG 5 (Gender Equality) in a developing Muslim country.

  3. 3.

    To analyze the “Stop Jahezkhori” campaign, which has marked a turning point in the dowry culture in Pakistan, raising awareness in Pakistani society about the need to eradicate this ancestral practice.

  4. 4.

    To observe how with a subsequent campaign (“Numaish”) UN Women Pakistan continues its long-term commitment to SDG 5 in general and to the struggle for the abolition of dowry culture particularly.

1 Introduction

Since the beginning of the twenty-first century and especially in the last decade, globally, more girls have been able to go to school, fewer girls have been pressured by their families into early marriage, more women have gained access to leadership positions, and laws have been reformed to develop gender equality. Despite these important advances, many challenges still remain in quite a few countries, where discriminatory social norms and laws remain in place, women continue to be undervalued in the workplace and in political leadership, child marriage is still practiced, and one in five girls and women aged 15–49 have reported physical or sexual violence (UN, 2021). Therefore, the implementation of new laws concerning women’s equality (e.g., in all workplaces) and the elimination of any kind of violence against women in all countries of the world are necessary.

The United Nations (UN) considers that “gender equality is not only a fundamental human right but a necessary foundation for a peaceful, prosperous, and sustainable world. Providing women and girls with equal access to education, health care, decent work, and representation in political and economic decision-making processes will fuel sustainable economies and benefit societies and humanity at large” (UN, 2021). A consequence of the lack of gender equality is violence against women. The United Nations (UN) defines “violence against women” as “any act of gender-based violence that results in, or is likely to result in, physical, sexual, or mental harm or suffering to women, including threats of such acts, coercion or arbitrary deprivation of liberty, whether occurring in public or private life” (UN Women, 2022). This violence against women is often widespread and reflected in cultural practices such as female genital mutilationFootnote 1 or honor killing,Footnote 2 or stems from illiteracy and deeply rooted customs such as child marriage,Footnote 3 arranged marriage,Footnote 4 compensation marriage,Footnote 5 or dowry.Footnote 6

The eradication of violence against women is a priority objective of the United Nations and, therefore, they have included it in the Sustainable Development Goals—SDGs (specifically in SDG 5 “Gender Equality”). Previously, in 2010, UN Women, the United Nations organization dedicated to promoting gender equality, defending women’s human rights and their empowerment, was created.Footnote 7

This case study will focus on dowry as a specific example of a practice that generates violence against women and stems from the lack of gender equality.

2 Dowry

Marriage plays a vital role in human life. Singlehood, although accepted in some cultures, is a real tragedy in others because society considers it a failure.Footnote 8 In the latter case, moreover, they are usually cultures where gender equality does not exist and superstition “links the gestation of girls with bad luck, so the care and education of girls is very different from that enjoyed by boys of their age … And there are even families that punish the woman who gives birth to a girl” (Olazábal, 2014). It is in these cultures where dowry acquires a key importance and can become a turning point in people’s lives, sometimes creating too many problems in later married life.

The custom of dowry, defined as “an amount of money, property or things (jewelry, cars, motorcycles, houses, appliances and electronic devices, furniture, etc.) that, by social convention, the bride’s family must give to the groom’s family before the weddingFootnote 9 and that are commensurate with the family’s social standing,”Footnote 10 is prevalent around the world. It is known by different names, depending on geographical and cultural locationsFootnote 11: Dahej, in Hindi; Varadhachanai, in Tamil; Jahez, in Urdu and Arabic; Joutuk, in Bengali; Jiazhuang, in Mandarin, Ceyiz, in Turkish; Dot, in French; Daijo, in Nepali; dote or ajuar, in Spanish; or Idana (in several African countries). Its origin is due to the fact that, in many societies, women did not participate in inheritances. With the dowry, daughters were given a material basis,Footnote 12 thus guaranteeing their economic security and protection for the future. In this sense, it is very frequent in South Asian cultures (for example, in Bangladesh, India, Nepal, Pakistan, or Sri Lanka) that there is a great agreement before marriage. This agreement can affect and determine people’s lives after the celebration of the engagement and the marriage itself.

Some people give dowry because they can afford it, but others demand dowry as if it were a reward (there are families who “sell” their sons and demand the money they have invested in their education). With the rise of consumerism, in some of these countries, dowry began to be seen as a means to get rich and obtain the comforts of a developed country.Footnote 13 Consequently, the demands for marriage gifts increased,Footnote 14 and weddings in style began to be demanded by the groom’s family, in order to maintain status.

Therefore, dowry has become “a practice that indebts families and works against women” (Aceprensa, 1995). Dowry has led many families to ruin. Middle- and lower-class families have taken out loans for their daughters’/sisters’ weddings in order to meet the dowry demands of the groom’s family. To repay these loans afterward, they live a life of slavery (which may even extend to the next generations).

Due to these demanding and greedy dispositions, it is common for the groom’s family to delay the wedding, maintaining this situation even over the years. Thus, when the bride’s marriageable age has passed, the engagement is broken off and the girl is left with the only possibility of marrying a divorced or widowed man. Because of the high dowry demands and, consequently, the inability to marry, many young women of middle and lower classes commit suicide; in other cases, brides are harassed by the groom’s family and are even attacked with acid or burned because they cannot meet the dowry demands. Or, even after the marriage, the woman is abused or even killed if her family does not continue to pay more money or hand over more property to her husband (“for marriage-related expenses or as confirmation of a certain social status”—EFE, 2007).

As a result of harassment, blackmail, extortion, humiliation, mistreatment, and torture (physical and/or psychological), suicide and murder, the payment of dowry has been prohibited in some of these countries where it is an integral part of their culture, or laws related to this practice have been passed. Thus, for example, in India, in 1961, the so-called Dowry Prohibition Act was passed, which applies when a married woman, within the first seven years of marriage,Footnote 15 dies in strange circumstances (the accused, usually the husband, “is considered guilty until proven innocent”—EFE, 2007). In the 1980s, the penal code was tightened in this country, with the intention of reducing violence against women within marriage (and which, in many cases, is linked to the nuptial payment).Footnote 16

However, these prohibitions have not ended this custom; on the contrary, it is still something very common in all social classes and castes, it is still present in the family tradition,Footnote 17 and the law is not enforced.Footnote 18 Dowry has simply been disguised as “gifts” for the groom’s relatives or it has become a “moral obligation” of the bride’s family to have to pay the wedding expensesFootnote 19 (EFE, 2007). This is because there is still a widespread belief in these countries that the woman is worth less and must pay the husband to support her.

In addition, the request for the dowry is made verbally (so that there is no record of the demands and thus they cannot be punished by law) and after the announcement of the engagement (so that the bride’s family suffers more pressure to pay it).Footnote 20 In cases where the bride or her family have decided to break the engagement because of this, they have suffered the rejection of society (it is usually thought that the cancellation of the marriage engagement is because “the bride has some serious defect or problem that has led her fiancé to repent,” being already marked forever and, practically, with no possibility of re-engagement and marriage).

Moreover, in these countries, there is strong corruption in the system, which does not protect women who report suffering from this practice,Footnote 21 which generates a sense of impunity among families who demand dowry.Footnote 22Many dowry murders (especially when the woman is burned alive) are difficult to prove, because the family registers it as an accident or suicide, leaving that death in oblivion …” (Olazábal, 2014). What really happens is that the husband’s family bribes the police to declare an accident what is really a murder, and only a few cases have been taken to court and even fewer have been solved.Footnote 23

3 Contextualization of the Case: The Situation in Pakistan

3.1 Violence against Women in Pakistan

Pakistan’s population has increased rapidly in recent decades (243 million people in 2022).Footnote 24 As a result, Pakistan has become the fifth most populous country in the world and the second largest country in South Asia. But it is also one of the lowest ranked for gender equality in the worldFootnote 25 and one of the most dangerous for women to live in. Footnote 26 However, recently, different provinces in Pakistan have received different responses of violence against women (Table 1).

Table 1 Responses of different provinces of Pakistan to violence against women

Women’s subjection to violence in Pakistan is due to their dependence on male family members and the submission they owe them, as well as the high percentage of illiteracy among the female population, especially in rural areas.Footnote 27 In addition, they think that domestic violence is a women’s problem.Footnote 28

However, the police system has also slowed down the process of combating violence, as the police put obstacles in the way so that, in the end, the victim gives up and does not report. Consequently, women do not report because (1) such reporting could, in terms of their marital life, play a determining role in ruining their future; or (2) because of people’s backwardness (it would be thought to be a disgrace to society). This leads to the fact that almost 56% of women do not seek any help after suffering physical and sexual violence.Footnote 29 In turn, the police and the judicial system are blamed for impeding the progress of these cases and, consequently, for women’s loss of confidence in the police, which pushes them not to go even to file a complaint. This results in women not disclosing to anyone and becoming emotionally and psychologically ill.

3.2 UN Women Pakistan

SDG 5 on gender equality and women’s empowerment in the 2030 Agenda for Sustainable Development has been welcomed in Pakistan and initiatives have been undertaken that “have included the establishment of national and provincial commissions on the status of women (which are led by women) and contribute to legislation and policies for women’s empowerment and gender equality” (UN Women, 2020).

UN Women Pakistan appointed Muniba MazariFootnote 30 (Table 2) as its first national ambassador “to advance gender equality and the empowerment of women and girls” (UN Women, 2020). This announcement was made in Islamabad, Pakistan, during an event to mark the end of the “16 days of activism against gender-based violence.”

Table 2 Muniba Mazari

3.3 Dowry Culture in Pakistan

Pakistan is an Islamic country and dowry has become important and necessary for all social classes. In Pakistan, some castes do not marry their son to a girl until her family has not given them, in addition to money, a car, an expensive motorcycle, electronic devices, jewelry, or any other good they have previously requested.

The age-old practice of dowry in Pakistani culture, so ingrained in their culture, has made several laws against dowry dysfunctional, causing 95% of families to continue to manifest dowry. There are 2000 dowry-related deaths per year in Pakistan (Shah, 2016), the highest in South Asia, and annual rates increase by 2.45 per 100,000 women, due to dowry-related violence (Daily Times, 2018).

A bill on dowry and marriage gifts (restricting, though not banning them)Footnote 31 was passed in Pakistan in 2008. Moreover, according to the law, public display of dowry and demand for dowry is illegal. However, despite this law, the demand for dowry and material goods by the groom’s family from the bride’s family is still common today.

The dowry issue is one of Pakistan’s greatest challenges. Today, a growing number of for-profit and nonprofit organizations are working to eliminate the dowry culture in this country. UN Women is one of the nonprofit organizations that is leading this fight and has conducted successful campaigns against dowry in Pakistan. The most prominent has been the 2018 campaign (“Stop Jahezkhori”—“Stop dowry mongering,” in English), carried out by the agency BBDO Pakistan on behalf of UN Women Pakistan, and which has marked a turning point in the attitude toward dowry by Pakistani society. Subsequently, in 2021, another campaign also had a strong impact and continued the debate on dowry.

4 “Stop Jahezkhori” Campaign

In an effort to eradicate the social evil of dowry and abolish it, UN Women Pakistan launched a campaign in 2018 entitled “Stop Jahez Khori” (meaning “Stop Dowry Mongering,” in English, and seeking to “stop the practice of dowry”)—Figs. 1 and 2, aimed at people involved in the practice of accepting dowry (its target audience was men and grooms’ parents), although it was also intended to reach out to Pakistani society as a whole.

Fig. 1
An Instagram post with 500 likes by unwomen Pakistan displays the meaning of Jahezkhori. It also has a hashtag stop Jahezkhori. The customary practice of asking for and accepting durable goods, cash, and real or movable property, from the bride's family by the groom's, as a condition for the marriage.

Stop Jahez Khori” Campaign. Source: UN Women Pakistan/BBDO (2020)

Fig. 2
Five different articles publish about anti-dowry campaigns. The slogan states stop dowry-mongering. Hands covered with henna are used as a symbol of the campaign.

Different images from the campaign. Source: UN Women Pakistan/BBDO (2020)

Jahez Khori” is a new term in the Urdu language that was created for the campaign as an insult to stigmatize the practice of dowry and change attitudes and behavior toward it. With this term, the campaign message was intended, rather than reminding men of the existing law against dowry (which would not be enough), to appeal to their honor (the most important asset for Pakistani man), to their self-respect. In other words, it sought to connect the message with the consequence of losing self-respect, rather than of breaking the law.Footnote 32 The main objective of this campaign was, therefore, to trigger negative perceptions among people about this practice and to shame those who demand dowry by insulting them (“anybody demanding dowry from hereon would be known as a dowrymongerer”—BBDO, 2021). In short, the aim was to change people’s mentality and, above all, their behavior regarding dowry.

UN Women Pakistan started the #StopJahezKhori campaign on December 19, 2018, coinciding with Pakistan’s winter wedding season.Footnote 33 It was featured by the actor Ali Rehman (considered the most desired bachelor in the country at the time), who, surprisingly, announced on social networks (specifically, on Instagram) that he was getting married and that he would like to introduce his girlfriend to everyone the next day, on the morning show on GEO TV. The live broadcast of the program was followed by millions of people, who were eager to know what the most envied woman of the moment was like. But instead of showing off his bride, Rahman focused on opening a wedding palanquin to display the gifts of the dowry (which included everything from a sewing machine to car keys, kitchen gadgets, and jewelry).

This performance aims to show how the dowry culture measures the value of the bride only in terms of material goods. In addition, it encouraged discussion about how the expectation of a dowry can add financial pressure, psychological stress, and threats to the bride’s family. The program also broadcast a special recorded message from the Chairman of the Islamic Ideology Council, Dr. Qibla Ayaz, in which he said that “Islam categorically discourages the practice of demanding or expecting a dowry from the bride’s family … Islam strictly forbids the flaunting of wealth, extravagant spending on weddings and other ceremonies, and burdening the bride’s family with demands for material goods” (UN Women, 2020).

Following the show, UN Women coordinated a series of posts from the “Stop Jahez Khori” campaign and its hashtag #StopJahezkhori by influencers, bloggers, celebrities, and leading women’s rights activists and experts on major social media (e.g., Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter). They challenged the dominant narratives about the practice of dowry, appealed to critical thinking, and pointed out its serious and harmful consequences. Several videos of the campaign were also uploaded to YouTube.Footnote 34

For this campaign, henna stencilsFootnote 35 were designed (Fig. 3), which were then printed on posters (500 individually created posters by henna artists were illustrated) and distributed and strategically placed in high-traffic areas in general, and in wedding shops, in particular. Special labels were also designed for retail stores to display on items typically purchased for dowry: furniture, electronics, jewelry, etc. It was also prepared as an image that could be downloaded from the website.

Fig. 3
A floral henna design with text in the center written in a foreign language.

Symbol of the campaign. Source: UN Women Pakistan/BBDO (2020)

The country’s celebrities (women and men),Footnote 36 civil society activists, influencers, and government officials, in addition to many citizens, put these henna stencils on their hands and displayed them as a symbol of solidarity and support for the UN Women’s campaign (Fig. 4).

Fig. 4
A collage of 6 photographs and two other photographs of people putting henna stencils to campaign against the dowry system.

Pakistani personalities collaborating with UN Women. Source: UN Women Pakistan/BBDO (2020)

The campaign set social media on fire and became a hot topic in Pakistan during the wedding season, sparking a huge community debate about dowry and its effects. In that time, 495 million impressions of the campaign symbol were made (UN Women, 2020). Ultimately, this campaign was highly successful and recognized, not only nationally (all major national news channels featured the campaign in the news), but also internationally (world’s leading media such as BBC, Gulf News, etc., echoed the campaign and valued its importance in generating debate on the subject). It has also won several international awards.Footnote 37

This campaign was the beginning of a cultural shift (some parents even went so far as to cancel their daughters’ weddings if someone demanded a dowry), although the most shocking result of the campaign was the statement made by the Islamic Council (the most influential body in Pakistan) that forced dowry is against Islam. Several clerics joined in the condemnation, making dowry not only a loss of self-esteem, but also a completely un-Islamic practice (and, consequently, a sin).

Despite the widely recognized success of the campaign, some criticisms were also made. Some pointed out that sometimes the bride’s family also demands material goods from the groom or his family; or that many families only want to marry their daughters to wealthy grooms. And many people commented on their personal experience with dowry pressure (UN Women, 2020).

5 The Road to Change: From “Stop Hahezkhori” Campaign to “Numaish” Campaign

In 2021, the UN Women Pakistan launched a second campaign entitled “Numaish,” with one of Pakistan’s fashion designers, Ali Xeeshan. As in the previous campaign, this new one was intended to trigger negative perceptions among people about the practice and shame dowry-seekers, also improving gender equality and women’s rights.

The campaign kicked off with the launch of the “Numaish” collection, designed by Ali Xeeshan, at the “Pantene HUM Bridal Couture Week 2021.” The staging was intended to highlight the sad and harsh reality of dowry culture, in an artistic way (a model, dressed as a young traditional bride, pulled a cart full of gifts, with her adult groom sitting on it—Fig. 5), but which greatly surprised the audience. The presentation ended with a note urging people to take an oath against dowry. The shocking photos of this campaign were subsequently uploaded to social media (#StopDowryMongering #NumaishNaLagao #JahezkhoriBandKaro”) and videos were also posted.Footnote 38

Fig. 5
A screenshot of a web page titled, UN Women Pakistan has a few lines of text and 4 photos. The text includes the hashtag, stop dowry mongering. 2 close-ups of a bride with a distressed face, a side and front view of the bride pulling a cart loaded with household things and the groom standing on top of it.

Second campaign (“Numaish”) #StopDowryMongering #NumaishnaLagao #DowryFreePakistan. #SayNoToDowry #CapitalismThrives. Sources: UN Women Pakistan (2021)

This second campaign created more controversy than the first. While many people applauded this collaborative initiative and the social message behind it, others criticized it as hypocritical and the result of regressive practices. Some even went so far as to say that “the opinion of anyone dealing with Pakistan’s opulent wedding business had no right to criticize the dowry culture” (Jain, 2021). They felt that the designers themselves are part of the problem because the luxurious dresses they create are very expensiveFootnote 39 (“parents have to save for years before they can afford to buy wedding dresses from such designers and there is constant competition”). Others felt it was simply an advertising strategy using social issues to draw public attention to the newly launched luxury collection. Anyway, this second campaign has reinforced this awareness against the dowry requirement.

6 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

For centuries, dowry has existed in Pakistani society. It has been practiced by all types of people, irrespective of caste or educational background (it is not only practiced by illiterate people, educated people also engage in it). Therefore, UN Women Pakistan has focused on discouraging the practice of forced dowry and related violence.

The dowry system is acceptable if it is considered as a voluntary gift given by the bride’s parents to the prospective husband. But if the groom’s parents demand money as “dowry” to get married, that is completely wrong, unethical and, moreover, illegal.

After these kinds of campaigns against dowry culture, which have been most effective through digital platforms and social networks, people have learned about this practice, its effects (which include violence and abuse, and can even lead to the bride being thrown acid or burned if her family does not give the dowry; o the murder of the wife, if the family does not continue to give more money or property after the wedding; or selective abortion and female infanticide, so as not to be “burdened” with daughters—they are considered a burden, rather than an asset—and have to pay their dowry when they reach marriageable age; or the suicide of the bride or her relatives, unable to pay the dowry). All these constitute some of the most detrimental dowry-related evils perpetrated against women.

After the UN Women’s first campaign in Pakistan, the dowry system and the demand for dowry by the groom’s family became an illegal procedure in Pakistan. Thanks to this campaign, the provisions and acts against dowry in Pakistan or in the global legal code have mainly become more effective.

Due to this first awareness campaign and the laws against the dowry system, the number of suicides of women due to this system was reduced, as well as the number of child marriages at very young ages (many families used to marry off their daughters as children to avoid a higher dowry later on).

The campaign “helped disprove the misperception that the practice of dowry is lawful by religion” by being endorsed by the Council of Islamic Ideology, which declared this practice of dowry as completely un-Islamic (UN Women, 2018). The second campaign has continued the line of the first and has continued to reinforce this awareness.

However, much remains to be done. Changing people’s mindset, attitude, and behavior in the face of deeply entrenched practices in society takes time, even generations. That is why social marketing is key to achieving this change.

7 Discussion Questions

Question 1—What do you think about dowry? Do you agree/disagree with this practice?

Question 2—How is the situation in your country? Is it like Pakistan, or is it completely different? If similar, has any action been taken? And if so, what kind?

Question 3—What other social marketing campaigns could have been carried out? Suggest some actions that could have been taken.

Question 4—Do you think it will be possible to eradicate the practice of dowry, especially in countries where it is deeply rooted and part of their culture? Why?