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Volitional Personal Change in an Interpersonal Perspective

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Self Change

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It has been well documented that close others (termed primary groups in the present analysis) do not remain indifferent when someone they feel close to experiences personal changes (Sampson, 1989; Sheriff, 1966). They accept and facilitate some changes (e.g., Hobfoll, 1985; Mermelstein et al., 1986), and attempt to block others (e.g., Fisher & Goff, 1986; Parkes, 1975; Pearce et al., 1981).

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Nadler, A., Fisher, J.D. (1992). Volitional Personal Change in an Interpersonal Perspective. In: Klar, Y., Fisher, J.D., Chinsky, J.M., Nadler, A. (eds) Self Change. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4612-2922-3_11

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